Sometimes all you need to do to make an engagement ring unique and meaningful is to customize it. Adding a personal flare to a diamond engagement ring is super fun and exciting especially if it's for such a special occasion. They are tons of ways to make your ring memorable but there is nothing more special than putting a piece of yourself into the jewelry. But you shouldn’t exclusively add “yourself” into the design you should add your partner into the engagement ring as well. It is a union between two people so let's design a ring that looks like one!
There is so much that goes into making, shaping, and assembling a diamond engagement ring that we could on for hours talking about all the intricacies. However, we know your time is valuable so we will make the following as short and sweet as possible. Below you will find 6 ways that you and your partner can customize your engagement rings. Whether it be a team effort or a surprise personalized engagement ring upgrade you are certain to learn something new and create something spectacular.
1. Add your favorite gemstone or color.
There is an entire world of gemstones out there that can make your engagement ring super unique and personal. So many gemstones in fact we are continuing to discover new stones every year! If you want to take your diamond engagement ring to the next level maybe try playing around with different stones. There are numerous amounts of different gemstones in any and every color you may desire. It actually may be difficult to pick which one you want with your engagement ring because there are just so many options. To make your life easier we say start with something that speaks to you. Try gemstones that catch your eye, or maybe which ones align with your birth month? Everyone has a unique birthstone, making them a great way to add that personal flare to your ring without making the ring too convoluted.
What if you do not want to add other gemstones as you are afraid the addition of another stone might take away from the grandeur of your diamond? If this is you, don't fret, you can add color to your gemstone in other ways. For example, you can choose different gold colors or other precious metals that have different colors. Using metal to add a pop of color to your ring is more than acceptable and in some cases can be exactly what makes it more personal. Soon you will find out just how you can use these metals to personalize your ring. Continue reading or head over to Step 6 (metal matters) to find out.
2. Introduce another ring
We all know how difficult it is to, select, purchase, and conceptualize the most important ring purchase in your life: your engagement and wedding rings. Therefore, we know it may seem weird to mention that maybe the best way to add that extra personalization to your rings is to get more rings. Ring stacking is a great way to create a complement to your engagement rings without losing focus on what's important: the diamond. There are hundreds of options and even more combinations of ring stacks out there. Therefore, if you are attempting to personalize your engagement ring so that no one else has anything like your ring, then you might need to consider the ring stacking route. At Dunkin’s Diamonds, we have rings that are designed to partner with your engagement rings in extravagant ways. Just like your fashionable necklaces and earring can enhance your outfit, ring stacks, and wedding bands can seriously upgrade the look and feel of your engagement rings.
There are so many ways to use ring stacks to personalize your engagement ring that we have entire articles dedicated to ring stacking. Check those articles and others like them here. But if you want a quick summary of the types of ring stacks we recommend for upgrading your engagement ring we have compiled a list for you here.
Provided is a list of some of our most popular ring stacks for engagement and wedding rings
- 1/5 ctw Engraved Two Tone Round Cut Diamond Wedding Band in 14K White and Yellow Gold (251C7DNFVWY-WB)
- Petite Stackable diamond ring with baguette cut diamonds (348A3DNFHYG)
- 1/10 Ctw Vintage Inspired Round Diamond Wedding Band in 14K White Gold (258E8DNFVWG-WB)
- Chevron Petite Diamond Ring (385F8DNFHWG)
3. Make a reference only you and your partner would know
Sometimes it is the inside jokes that make something super meaningful and unique. Haven't you ever wished that you were included in a joke that you know was a “had to be there” moment? You might have felt a bit jealous of your friends who had this special moment without you. In theory, if you can have a wonderful bonding moment from an inside joke why not try and have that same feeling in your engagement rings? Everyone will be jealous of you and your partner if you both have something included that only you too can share or even laugh about. Make your engagement ring into an inside joke, pop culture, or fandom reference. For example, If you are a nerd couple maybe try unique rings or signets from your favorite video games. A great example is the “Together Forever” rings from the game “Valorant”.
Regardless of how you decide to reference the inside joke or special memory on the ring, all that matters is that both of you are reminded of your bond when you look at it. An engagement ring doesn't have to be boring, it can have wonderful flawless diamonds and a nod to a memory you will always share. Speaking of lasting memories, the proposal of your engagement rings is probably the most memorable of all. Why not make it perfect, in fact why not also make it just as unique as your ring? If this interests you check out this article here. There you will learn exactly how to make your engagement/proposal extra special.
4. Include your birthstones
Everyone has a birth month, so if you are struggling to find ways to add a personal touch to your engagement ring it's very easy to settle with your birthstone. Your birthstone is a part of your identity, you were born with it and it can never change. It's very simple to get your birthstone added to your engagement ring either as a centerpiece or as an addition to your diamond. Most people associate their birthstones with being worn on diamond necklaces or earrings. But it's very trendy to add your birthstone to your engagement ring as it adds a wonderful pop of color to your hand. Plus, if you will definitely start up some conversations with your birthstone on your hand. People simply adore talking about their birthstones.
If you are unsure what your designated birthstone is read the list below
- January: Garnet
- February: Amethyst
- March: Aquamarine
- April: Diamond (try different colors)
- May: Emerald
- June: Pearl
- July: Ruby
- August: Peridot
- September: Sapphire
- October: Opal
- November: Topaz
- December: Turquoise
If you want to want to learn more about these wonderful gemstones you can check out our birthstone guide here. There you will learn about the intricacies and wonders that come with owning jewelry with your birthstone attached to it.
5. Highlight your heritage
There is so much symbolism and tradition in a ring that relates to your heritage. These types of rings get passed down for centuries and will be memorable forever. We can't tell you exactly how to add your heritage to your engagement ring but we can certainly show you some ideas so you can do it in your own way.
A great way to add your heritage to your engagement ring design is to start with your roots. Are you Irish and fascinated with the Celtic knot? Then add the Celtic knot to your engagement ring somehow? Looking at where you came from and the traditions and values your ancestors had can be a great place to start when looking to personalize your ring. Don't forget where you came from. After all, you are here because of your ancestors.
Also, check and see if you and your partner have a shared heritage maybe there is a deeper connection that can be made by the intertwining of similar cultures or backgrounds.
6. Metal Matters
As you have probably noticed there are so many different ways to customize your ring. But one simple and easy way to add some extra personalization to your engagement ring is by choosing a metal. The star of your engagement ring is most likely your gemstone or your brilliant diamond, however, don't let their glamor fool you. The metal that holds up the ring and forms your band is just as important, if not more important. Think about it, without any metal how are you supposed to wear your gemstones? That's why we stress not only the physical importance of choosing the right metal but also the emotional importance of choosing a meaningful one.
So how do I personalize my ring with metal? Well, to answer questions like this one, it's easiest to start with what makes each metal different. We have an entire article explaining the different metal types, along with the pros and cons of each one so that you can choose the best option for you. You can check out that article here . But, we know not all of us have that kind of time so here is a simplified list of the most popular metals and what they can do to personalize your engagement ring.
Gold: Gold has a lot of flexibility both literally and metaphorically. The metal in fact has a soft and malleable presence that allows it to feel light and airy on your finger, it truly will bend to suit your finger over time. Secondly, it's flexible in the sense that it comes in so many different varieties allowing it to work in any scenario. Do you need white gold to match the brilliance of your stone? Do you need a high karat so you can personalize the ring to match your luxurious lifestyle? Gold can do it all and it's no wonder it has become the most coveted jewelry metal all around the globe.
Silver: Silver has a glorious and clean appeal that is extremely popular among all types of jewelry. Because this gemstone is not as rare as gold it goes for budget price points and can be a great option for those who want to put more money into the gemstone instead of the band. If you are considering personalizing your ring through other means and you think it might burn a hole in your wallet silver is a great metal to ease some of the weight off.
Platinum: Platinum is a rarer metal that is sure to upgrade any ring you desire. If you are looking for something that can personalize your ring not only through visual means but through physical means then platinum is right for you. As a malleable yet dense metal, platinum is also great for those who have active lifestyles. If you are someone who enjoys taking risks and getting your hands dirty platinum might be a more suitable option for you.
Also, don't forget you and your partner should elect to get rings that have a similar metal theming. For example, both of you could get gold bands and white gold prongs. Coordination is key especially if it's for something as important as an engagement and eventual wedding.
Pro tip: you should also keep in mind your wedding rings and how they might pair with the metal of your personalized diamond engagement rings.
Customize and wear with pride
Don't forget that this is your engagement ring! Other than your partner, you are the only one who should be happy with the ring. Personalize it how you want and modify it as you desire. After all, you are the one who has to wear it all the time.
